Wednesday, September 3, 2008

A List To Live By

The most destructive habit,..................................Worry
The greatest Joy,............................................Giving
The greatest loss,...........................................Loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work,....................................Helping others
The ugliest personality trait,...............................Selfishness
The most endangered species,.................................Dedicated leaders
Our greatest natural resource,.............................Our youth & our elderly
The greatest “shot in the arm",..............................Encouragement
The greatest problem to overcome,............................Fear
The most effective sleeping pill,............................Peace of mind
The most crippling failure disease,..........................Excuses
The most powerful force in life,.............................Love
The most dangerous pariah,...................................A gossiper
The world’s most incredible computer,...................The brain
The worst thing to be without,...............................Hope
The deadliest weapon,........................................The tongue
The two most power-filled words,........................“I Can”
The greatest asset,.............................................Faith
The most worthless emotion,..................................Self-pity
The most prized possession,..................................Integrity
The most powerful channel of communication,...........Prayer
The most beautiful attire,.....................................SMILE!
The most contagious spirit...................................Enthusiasm
Our Greatest teacher..........................................Experience
To the world, YOU may be one person; but to one person, you may be the world!!
- anonymous

a 2DO List for Life

1. Life isn’t fair, but it’s still good.
2. When in doubt, just take the next small step.
3. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone.
4. Don’t take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
5. Pay off your credit cards every month.
6. You don’t have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.
7. Cry with someone. It’s more healing than crying alone.
8. It’s OK to get angry with God. He can take it.
9. Save for retirement starting with your first paycheck.
10. When it comes to chocolate, resistance is futile.
11. Make peace with your past so it won’t screw up the present.
12. Its OK to let your children see you cry.
13. Don’t compare your life to others’. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
14 If a relationship has to be a secret, you shouldn’t be in it.
15. Everything can change in the blink of an eye. But don’t worry; God never blinks.
16. Life is too short for long pity parties. Get busy living, or get busy dying.
17. You can get through anything if you stay put in today.
18. A writer writes. If you want to be a writer, write.
19. It’s never too late to have a happy childhood. But the second one is up to you and no one else.
20. When it comes to going after what you love in life, don’t take no for an answer.
21. Burn the candles, use the nice sheets, wear the fancy lingerie. Don’t save it for a special occasion. Today is special.
22. Over prepare, then go with the flow.
23. Be eccentric now. Don’t wait for old age to wear purple.
24. The most important sex organ is the brain.
25. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
26. Frame every so-called disaster with these words: “In five years will it matter?”
27. Always choose life.
28. Forgive everyone for everything.
29. What other people think of you is none of your business.
30. Time heals almost everything. Give time time.
31. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
32. Your job won’t take care of you when you are sick. Your family will.
33. Believe in miracles.
34. God loves you because of who God is, not because of anything you did or didn’t do.
35. Whatever doesn’t kill you really does make you stronger.
36. Growing old beats the alternative — dying young.
37. Your children get only one childhood. Make it memorable.
38. Read the Psalms. They cover every human emotion.
39. Get outside every day. Miracles are waiting everywhere.
40. If we all threw our problems in a pile and saw everyone else’s, we’d grab ours back.
41. Don’t audit life. Show up and make the most of it now.
42. Get rid of anything that isn’t useful, beautiful or joyful.
43. All that truly matters in the end is that you loved.
44. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
45. The best is yet to come.
46. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
47. Take a deep breath. It calms the mind.
48. If you don’t ask, you don’t get.
49. Yield.
50. Life isn’t tied with a bow, but it’s still a gift.

The author is unknown.

Saturday, August 30, 2008

FILL YOUR many BUCKETS

SATURDAY SEPTEMBER 6TH 9 AM - 11 AM

We are getting closer to our Home Family and Personal Enrichment activity coming up this Saturday 9am.

I am in need of one wonderful volunteer to help us with a very SIMPLE skit (script in hand)... any takers?

Here is the homework assignment prior to breakfast.

TREASURE CHEST:
if you are bringing things to give away... please bring at 8:30 so it is set up and ready to go by breakfast.

THE BUCKET LIST: (fill your emotional/relational BUCKET)
Bring your thinking cap, ideas, needs, that are relevant to your season etc... decide what discussion you want to be a part of...
1) JUST GETTIN' STARTED- young adults; single, recently married, and/or with toddler children
2) IN THE THICK OF THINGS- if you have kids - they are somewhere between elementary and High school
3) LIFE IS CHANGING AROUND- if you have children they are in high school or older
*this is not age dictated but season of life or depth of perspective

THE CONTROL JOURNAL (fill your temporal/practical BUCKET)
Bring a 2"/3ring binder, about 20 sheet protectors, a printed emergency preparedness packet
a completed wallet card (from packet - optional)

I STAND IN HOLY PLACES (fill your SPIRITUAL BUCKET)
A desire to be proactive with the spirit you bring to your home.

The theme is ...come to FILL YOUR BUCKET. There are many tools available to FILL THE BUCKETS
in our lives... come gather some of the tools.
We are looking forward to sharing and hopefully enriching our lives together!!

Sunday, August 24, 2008

I'm Reading AGAIN

I have so much to learn and so little time...The 2 books I have chosen for this new month are:
1)Love and Respect (The love she most desires/The respect he desperately needs)by Dr. Emerson Eggerichs
and
2)Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
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I have never read Love and Respect but it comes highly recommended by my business coaches. I love learning how to better all of my relationships... and this would be the one that is most important to me next to my relationship to my Heavenly Father.
Here is the Message: A wife has one driving need - to feel loved. When that need is met, she is happy. A husband has one driving need - to feel respected. When that need is met, he is happy. When either of these needs isn't met, things get crazy. Love and Respect reveals why spouses react negatively to each other, and how they can deal with such conflict quickly, easily and biblically. Based on over 3 decades of counseling, as well as scientific and biblical research, Dr Eggerichs and his wife have already taken the LOVE AND RESPECT message across America and are changing the way couples talk to, think about, and treat each other. What do you want for your marriage? want some peace? want to feel close? want to feel valued? want to experience marriage the way God intended? Then why not try some LOVE AND RESPECT.
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I have read Think and Grow Rich... Napoleon Hill has written several mind boggling books that speak the truth. It is amazing what our minds can comprehend and achieve. Because I own a business that to be successful you help others succeed... I am definitly interested in learning everything I can to make that so. THINK AND GROW RICH represents the distilled wisdom of distinguished men of great wealth and achievement. Andrew Carnegie's magic formula for success was the direct inspiration for this book. Carnegie demonstrated its soundness when his coaching brought fortunes to those young men to whom he had disclosed his secret. This book shows you what to do and how to do it. If you learn and apply the simple basic techniques revealed here, you will have mastered the secret of true and lasting success.

Monday, August 18, 2008

FOR A GOOD LAUGH!

THE COPING DIET

Only for woman, for they alone can understand it. This is specially formulated diet
designed to help them cope with the female stresses that build during each day.

Breakfast
1 grapefruit
1 slice whole wheat toast
1 cup skim milk

Lunch
1 small portion lean, steamed chicken
1 cup spinach
1 cup herbal tea
1 Hershey's kiss

Afternoon Snack
The rest of the Hershey kisses in the bag
1 tub of Hagen-Daaz ice cream with chocolate chips

Dinner
4 glasses of wine (red or white)
2 loaves garlic bread
1 family size supreme pizza
3 Snickers Bars

Late Night Snack
1 whole Sarah Lee cheesecake (eaten directly from the freezer)

Remember: Stressed spelled backward is desserts.

Send this to four women and you will lose two pounds.

Send this to all the women you know (or ever knew)
and you will lose 10 pounds.

If you delete this message, you will gain 10 pounds immediately.
That is why I had to pass it on; I didn't want to risk it.